Design Your Life

Helping You to Heal the Past, Re-Write your Story and Reclaim Your Confidence & Joy ​

 

Sometimes life throws us 'curve balls' that stop us in our tracks & make us lose our confidence

 

Welcome! I work with Smart, Savvy Women who have have had previous setbacks that have rocked their confidence and self belief. They have been through a lot  - but they still have a DREAM 

 

Gorgeous, what-ever or who-ever it was that eroded your confidence and self belief, it's time to know your worth!! It's time to  RE-WRITE your Story and CLAIM your Crown as Queen of Your Own Life!

 

 

  •  Has Self Doubt & Low Confidence been holding you back from experiencing everything you desire in life -  Career/Business/Relationships/Having Fun?​

  • Are you tired of feeling not good enough/not worthy enough/not lovable enough/not successful enough?
Darling life is too short to waste being stuck in self doubt, low confidence and simply wishing you could start the business/ask for a raise/start dating again/write the book/... [ Insert your own dream ] 
IT'S TIME TO STEP UP AND CLAIM YOUR CROWN! 

The women that I work with are Smart, Savvy Women..... but somewhere along the way someone or something has undermined their Confidence and Self-Esteem. 

 

They have lost their spark.

They have lost their self belief.

And they have lost themselves in the process

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DARLING THE LIFE YOU DREAM OF IS AVAILABLE TO YOU

My mission is to help you free yourself from the self-doubt, fear, old stories and self sabotaging behaviours so you can create the life, business, career and have the relationships of your dreams!

But first, tell me, how does self-doubt & low confidence show up in your life?

Life is full of ups and downs, curve balls, and painful experiences which can erode our confidence and self esteem, 

but, no matter what happened in the past, you can Rewrite Your Story & Claim Your Crown. 

 

IMAGINE IF YOU COULD LET GO OF THE SELF DOUBT AND FELT MORE CONFIDENT?

  • Would you STOP feeling like a failure or not good enough?

  • Would you feel more at EASE in social situations?

  • What would your relationships look like? Would you feel more SECURE and HAPPY?

  • Would you feel more confident DATING?  

  • What about your Career or Business? Would you ATTRACT more clients? Would you earn more?

  • What about your Health? 

  • Would you feel happier, more content and JOYFUL?

  • Would you stop hiding and allow yourself to SHINE?

 

 

ARE YOU READY TO:

  • Be the CREATOR of your life .... not the victim of it 

  • Sparkle and SHINE and feel good in your own skin

  • Wake up, jump out of bed with JOY and PURPOSE, excited to start your day by living and being the woman you have always dreamt to be

  • Be Unapologetically & AUTHENTICALLY YOU

  • Claim Your CROWN as Queen of Your Life! 

If you are ready to reclaim your joy, build your confidence and create a bold vision for your future

then keep reading, because this could be the most important thing you will read today

My Passion is to help  Women just like you to know at a DEEP LEVEL that they are GOOD ENOUGH, to tame their INNER CRITIC, to let go of SELF DOUBT, to RE-WRITE their Story and have UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE, so they can CLAIM their Crown as Queen of their Own Life!

My magic is helping you peel back the layers and to let go of who the world told you to be, so you can uncover your Authentic. Limitless & Confident Self

It's Time to STOP Dimming Your Light

 

It's Time to STOP Playing Small

It's time to FIRE YOUR INNER CRITIC

No More PEOPLE PLEASING

 

It's Time to STOP SETTLING for mediocre

It's time to know you are GOOD ENOUGH

It's time to start BELIEVING in yourself and your DREAMS

It's Time for You to SHINE!

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LIFE

  • You struggle with feeling 'NOT GOOD ENOUGH' 

  • You compare yourself negatively to others

  • You have trouble communicating your needs and setting 'BOUNDARIES' with others

  • You put your own needs last

  • You are a PEOPLE PLEASER

  • You have a fierce 'INNER CRITIC'​ and, even though you know you should be nicer to yourself, you can’t seem to change your self-talk?

  • You are reluctant to 'put yourself out there' or try new things

  • You have trouble accepting compliments

  • You experience Social Anxiety

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CAREER/BUSINESS

  • You're afraid of what others will think of you if you put yourself out there.

  • You think: “Who am I to do this work? Why would anyone want to listen to me?

  • You resist calling customers and making sales calls

  • You play small and hide

  • You have 'Imposter Syndrome'

  • You wonder if anyone wants to hear your message or will ever pay to work with you

  • You compare yourself to others?

  • You feel like you don't know enough - so you do course after course

  • You feel like you 'should have' achieved more at your age

  • At work you have trouble asking for a raise, you minimize accomplishments or let others take credit for your work

  • If you do succeed at something- you put it down to luck

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RELATIONSHIPS

  • You 'second-guess' what your partner is thinking and wonder when it is 'all going to fall apart'

  • You continually fear and look for signs of rejection from others

  • You feel insecure or needy and question whether you’re partner really loves you or whether you’re lovable and seek frequent reassurance

  • You'll drive yourself crazy after you catch your partner chatting with another woman at a party or social function

  • You find it hard to believe that any potential romantic partner would want to be with you.

  • You put up with bad behaviour

 

 

Darling, if you can’t see your own worth, how can you believe a partner will? Low self-esteem can make you sabotage relationships that have potential, or settle for relationships in which you’re treated in a way that matches your beliefs about yourself.

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Hi, I am Kim Gillespie and I know what it is like to experience crippling low self confidence and self doubt and for many years I let it stop me. I had a 'Nasty Inner Critic' who told me things like - 'you're not good enough', 'you're not important' , 'everyone else is more talented/special enough etc etc....  and as you can imagine it stopped me from fully living my life!

So what changed to get me to where I am now?

 

I did!! 

 

I began my journey to RECLAIMING ME!, I cleared the old beliefs and stories that told me I was 'not good enough' ~  I changed my mindset. Fast forward to today and life is rather amazing! I am in a wonderful relationship with an amazing man, who I love dearly. I live in a beautiful house at the seaside. I travel the world (We traveled Europe the last 2 years on a Motorbike!!) and I have a business that fuels my soul

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LET'S CLAIM YOUR CROWN

 

You've got huge goals. But it's not only Goals

You want to do great things. 

You want to feel alive, vibrant, creative. 

Together, we eliminate the limiting beliefs and negative emotions that are holding you back from having the ALL you truly desire. All the freedom. All the love. All the success. All the happiness.

 

You will transform from being stuck in fear and self doubt to Claiming Your Crown and 'ruling' your life with clarity, confidence, purpose and fun

GORGEOUS YOU ARE FAR TOO SMART TO BE THE ONLY ONE STANDING IN YOUR WAY!

SO, IF YOU ARE READY TO:

  • CLEAR & RELEASE the OLD STORIES that undermine your self esteem and confidence, so you have the ability to move on from them with UNSHAKABLE SELF BELIEF

  • END feeling not good enough/not worthy enough/not lovable enough/not successful enough

  • Implement critical MINDSET SHIFTS that will unlock unwavering confidence and sky-high self-esteem​

  • END being a 'PEOPLE PLEASER ' or 'Little Miss Perfect'

  • AUTOMATICALLY TRIGGER Self Confidence in Difficult Situations

  • Befriend your INNER CRITIC (you know -  that negative inner voice that tells you you are hopeless/a failure/not good enough)

  • Feel Confident setting Boundaries with others & start focusing on your own feelings and needs

  • Learn CONFIDENCE BUILDING SELF TALK  - you will learn the latest discovery about how to do self talk that instantly improves your mood and performance

  • SHIFT into a POWERFUL Place where you feel EXCITED, INSPIRED & willing to trust in possibility​

  • GET CLEAR on your Dreams and Vision for the Future​​

  • Give yourself permission to make HAPPINESS & PLEASURE a priority in your life

  • And finally CLAIM YOUR CROWN as Queen of Your Own Life

Then let's make it happen! 

YOUR NEXT STEP

To see if Confidently YOU is the right fit for you and also for you to experience working with me, I would like to GIFT you a FREE, NO OBLIGATION Clarity Breakthrough Session

 

Here is what we will do together in this valuable free session

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  • Get really clear on your goals both short term and long term  

  • Help you get aha moments and GREAT clarity 

  • Tell you exactly what you should focus on first to move forward

  • My best recommendation for strategy and next steps you should take 

  • My honest evaluation of what’ possible for you - big picture - based on your goals

 

  

 

Imagine having the CONFIDENCE to go after your dreams?

​You could keep hoping and wishing that you magically fall into a new life. 

 

OR, you can dig deep and build your self-belief and self-esteem from within

and create an inspiring vision for your life

 

. . . AND actually start living it!

YOU ARE AN AMAZING, TALENTED AND INCREDIBLE WOMAN

 

 

You are not what your parents/teachers/school bully/ex or old bosses told you!

 

You are not your past

You are not your mistakes

You are not your story

You are so much more …



Are you ready to stop listening to those old stories?

Are you ready to HEAL the PAST

 

Are you ready to STOP putting your dreams on hold?

You have the power right now to make a change in your life...

...Just make the choice to go and DO it.

Isn't it TIME to CLAIM YOUR CROWN

 

It's time to Say YES to a NEW, CONFIDENT, EMPOWERED YOU

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